I kona wā kamaliʻi ua hōʻailona ʻia ʻo ia e ma mua a ma hope o Star Wars (1977). Mai ia manawa, makemake ʻo ia e ʻaʻahu i ke one ʻōmaʻomaʻo i lilo ʻo Luke Skywalker ma laila. ʻAʻole no ka hakakā ʻana i nā stormtroopers a me nā mea mai nā honua ʻē aʻe a hoʻokele i kahi mokuahi, akā e hana i kahi misionari kūʻokoʻa: e lawe mai i ka maluhia a me ka ʻike iā ia iho. I ka pōkole, lanakila i ka ʻaoʻao ʻeleʻele, no ka mea, ʻaʻole pepehi ka ʻōpio protagonist o Star Wars i kona makuakāne -Darth Vader- ke loaʻa iā ia ka manawa; aka, e hoao ana e loaa hou kona maikai. "He aha ka ikaika a me ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka ʻakaʻaka?" noʻonoʻo ʻo Eduardo Jáuregui, kahi hui ma waena o ka psychologist, ka mea hoʻonaʻauao, ka mea kākau a me ka poʻokela o ka leʻaleʻa nāna i hoʻoikaika i ka pono e ʻakaʻaka i nā kūlana ʻino loa, me ka make. "ʻO ka poʻe e kū nei i nā maʻi koʻikoʻi ka mea maʻamau e ʻakaʻaka iā lākou. "Inā he ʻelima mau minuke i koe e ola ai, he aha kāu e hana ai?" wahi a kēia kauka, hānau ʻia ma Oxford akā hānai ʻia ma waena o Madrid, Navarra a me Los Angeles ma lalo o ke ʻano o ka moʻopuna a ka mea kamaʻilio aloha ʻo Eladio a me ke keiki a. ʻO José Antonio "ʻO ia ka mea hoʻohenehene i mahalo nui ʻia. "ʻO ka mea hiki ke leʻaleʻa i kēia mau manawa ke hōʻike nei i ka ikaika a me ke kuleana," i wehewehe ʻo Jáuregui, ka mea i hoʻohālikelike ʻia ʻo ia ka maʻi maʻi maʻamau e hoʻomaka i nā ʻakaʻaka, ma mua o nā mea āpau, e hōʻoluʻolu i ko lākou ʻohana. Ma waena o nā hana ma mua he nui ʻole, ʻoiai ʻo ia e hele mai ana a hele mai kāna aloha ʻo Florence, aʻo ʻo Jáuregui i nā papa hana a me nā hana e pili ana i ke kōkua ʻana i ka poʻe i ka hopena o ko lākou ola mai kahi hiʻohiʻona ʻakaʻaka. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia e kapa ʻia ʻo ia ʻo 'laughter therapy', ʻoiai ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo nei i kēia huaʻōlelo 'hohonu loa a ʻoihana', ʻoiai ʻo kāna mau hana improvisation a me kāna mau hōʻike wiwo ʻole ua loaʻa iā ia ke kūlana o ke 'koa hoʻohaʻahaʻa'. Ma waena o lākou, hana pū lākou me ka papahana Comprehensive Care o la Caixa Foundation no nā maʻi me nā maʻi holomua. Ma waena o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ikaika a me ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa e pili ana i nā palena o ka ʻakaʻaka, ua wehewehe kēia "mea haʻi moʻolelo" i nā kūlana i ʻae ʻia a mahalo ʻia. No ka laʻana, ʻeleʻele ʻakaʻaka, he "hōʻailona hoʻopaʻapaʻa e hoʻopuka ai i ka hōʻole ʻana ma muli o kona ʻano", akā he "pono" i kekahi mau kūlana e like me nā ʻoihana koʻikoʻi e like me nā mea puhi ahi, nā kauka, nā mākaʻi a me nā kaua. Eia naʻe, ua wehewehe ʻo ia e hoʻohana wale ʻia i waena o lākou a ʻaʻole e kaʻana like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, no ka mea "ua huhū nā kānaka no ka hāʻule ʻana o kēlā pale." Manaʻo ʻo Jáuregui hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻakaʻaka a ʻaʻole hauʻoli: "ʻo ka mask a mākou e ʻaʻahu ai i kekahi manawa hiki ke hūnā a kāpae i kā mākou mau makemake." "Ehia mau manawa a mākou i pane ai me nā emoticon ʻakaʻaka ma WhatsApp a ʻaʻole mākou ʻakaʻaka? "E ʻōlelo wau ʻo ia ka wahaheʻe nui loa i kēia lā," wahi a ka psychologist. Pēlā nō, ua noʻonoʻo ʻo ia "pono mākou e holo i ka ʻakaʻaka e like me ka ʻakaʻaka ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e pili ana i kahi kūlana neurosis nui aʻe, a mai ka hana nui ʻana iā ia iho ma ke ʻano he hana hoʻoweliweli." No kēia psychologist, "hiki ke loaʻa ka hauʻoli," akā pono ʻoe e "hana no ia a lanakila," no ka mea, "ʻaʻole hiki wale mai, ʻaʻole hoʻi he hopena kilokilo e like me kā lākou kūʻai aku ma nā hoʻolaha." "Pono mākou e hana i ke ʻano o ke ola ma o ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā talena a me nā ikaika a kau iā lākou i ka lawelawe o ke kanaka.
