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Amamodeli omndeni ashintshile. Ubaba, umama kanye nezingane akusezona zodwa izibongo ezakha umphakathi. Namuhla, izingane nezingane zihlanganyela ikilasi nemindeni enabazali abahlukene, abangabazali abangabodwa noma abobulili obufanayo. Eqinisweni, eSpain, yonke imibhangqwana emine yabesifazane (28%) kanye njalo neshumi kuyo yonke imibhangqwana emithathu yabesilisa (9%) inezingane, ngokocwaningo 'Imindeni Yomzali Oyedwa'.
Lokhu kwehlukahlukana komndeni, okube negalelo elikhulu ekusizeni amasu okuzala, ukuthi, ngaphandle kokunikelwa kwama-gametes noma ukuzalanisa okwenziwa, ngokwesibonelo, ezinye zezinhlobo zomndeni ezintsha azikwazanga ukwenziwa.
Enye yalezi zindlela ezisizwayo zokuzala yindlela ye-ROPA, evumela ukubamba iqhaza kwabesifazane ababili ekuzuzeni ukukhulelwa.
Enye yazo ihlinzeka ngamaqanda kanti enye ithola imibungu futhi izothwala nokubeletha.
Lena kwakuyinketho kaLaura noLaura, umbhangqwana ongqingili ababa omama kuJulia wabo omncane ekupheleni konyaka odlule. Kuleli sonto lomgubho ngemva koSuku Lomhlaba Lokuziqhenya (Juni 28), sixoxe nabo mayelana nokuba ngumama, ukuthi kusho ukuthini kubo ukuthi umphakathi, kancane kancane, uzenza kanjani lezi ezinye izibonelo zemindeni.
Ubusazi ukuthi ufuna ukuba omama?
Yebo, sasihlala sicaca ukuthi sifuna ukuqala umndeni ndawonye, kuyisifiso sethu esikhulu kunazo zonke. Besihlale sisizwa isidingo sokudlulisa uthando lwethu nezimiso zethu, futhi iyiphi indlela engcono yokukwenza kunokudala izimpilo ezintsha.
Ubuyazi indlela ye-ROPA? Ingabe bekuyisinqumo sakho sokuqala?
Yebo, besimazi. Safunda ngale ndlela ngokokuqala ngqá eminyakeni embalwa edlule, futhi saqala ukufuna ulwazi, ukuzibhalela nokuhlangana nemindeni eyengeziwe yomama ababili ababeyenzile. Sathandana nombono wokuthi sobabili singabamba iqhaza ngokukhuthele enqubweni yokukhulelwa.
Kwakuyinketho yethu yokuqala, kodwa hhayi yodwa, ngoba ngaphezu kwakho konke okusebenzisa ngokucacile ukuthi sasifuna ukuba omama kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi indlela. Faka etshalwe yethu ukutholwa okungenzeka.
Lapho ukhuluma nomndeni wakho, abangani, ukuthi ufuna ukuba omama… bakutshelani?
Babejabule kakhulu, ngoba wonke umuntu wayesazi isifiso ababeyosisebenzisa ngaso sonke isikhathi, saze sacabanga ukuthi izingane zethu ziyoba njani. Ubhubhane belusho ukuthi kufanele silubambezele unyaka, ngoba sizodinga ukubikezela ukuthi lolu hlelo luzoqala ngo-2020, kodwa kwaze kwaba nguJanuwari 2021 lapho saqala khona ukuvakashela imitholampilo eminingi yokuzala eSeville.
Wanquma kanjani ukuthi ubani owanikeza amaqanda nokuthi ubani owathola imibungu?
Kwakuyinto abuye ayisebenzisa ngokucace kakhulu, inqobo nje uma ukuhlolwa kwezokwelapha kuqinisekisa isinqumo sethu. Sihlaziya ikhwalithi yama-ovules kanye ne-ovarian reserve. Umkami, uLaura, naye wayejabule kakhulu ngokukhulelwa futhi wayehlale ethi »ufuna ingane yethu iphathe ufuzo lwami futhi ibukeke njengami, futhi ibe nama-curls ami!«.
Ngitshele kancane ngayo yonke inqubo: kusukela kulokho kuhlolwa kokuqala kwezokwelapha kuya ekukhulelweni. Uhlangabezane kanjani nakho?
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kuye kwaba kuhle kakhulu, nakuba siye saba nezikhathi eziningi zokungaqiniseki. Uma sebesishintshele indlela ye-ROPA, kuzoba sobala ukuthi izoba se-Ginemed, njengoba selokhu saya ekubonisaneni kokuqala noDkt.
Saqala ukuhlola ukuze sihlaziye ukuthi yimuphi kulaba ababili ababene-ovarian reserve eyengeziwe, futhi lapho sekuqinisekisiwe ukuthi ngizoba umnikezeli, ngaqala ngokwelashwa kwe-hormone kanye nama-punctures. Konke kwakushesha kakhulu futhi kulula. Kusukela saqala ngokuhlolwa, esikhathini esingaphansi kwezinyanga ezi-2 ngase ngivele ngine-ovule puncture, futhi ngemva kwezinsuku ezingu-5, ukudluliselwa kombungu omuhle kakhulu wekhwalithi.
Sikukhumbula ngesasasa elikhulu nethemba lokuthi kuzohamba kahle, kodwa futhi nokungaqiniseki nokwesaba okukhulu, njengoba selokhu kwenziwa i-puncture, sikubiza nsuku zonke ezinsukwini ezinhlanu ezizayo ukuze sikwazise ngokuvela kwama-ovules. lokho kuzoba ngcono Ukudluliswa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ithemba le-beta, njengoba yaziwa njengenkathi edlulayo kusukela ekudlulisweni uze uqinisekise ukuthi ukhulelwe noma cha, izinsuku eziyi-10 zaphakade. Kodwa ekugcineni lwafika lolo suku, futhi sathola izindaba ezinkulu kunazo zonke esake sazithola ekuphileni kwethu. Uma sikukhumbula, sisakhungatheka nanamuhla.
Besinjani isikhathi sokulethwa? Benindawonye?
Usuku lokulethwa saluqopha ngesasasa elikhulu. U-Julia, okuyilokho indodakazi yethu ebizwa ngokuthi, wayefuna ngempela ukuzalwa futhi wayenamaviki angu-4 ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ephula isikhwama ngoDisemba 7. Lapho sifika esibhedlela futhi baqinisekisa izinsolo zethu, ukuthi uJulia wayephule isikhwama, basitshela ukuthi uzozalwa emahoreni angu-24 esiphezulu. Lapho sabukana futhi sasazi ukuthi lolo kwakuyoba usuku lokugcina ekuphileni kwethu ukuthi siyoba ababili. Usuku lwalushubile, sasihlala ndawonye ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kokuhlukana nomzuzu owodwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sabanjwa maphakathi negagasi le-omicron, ngakho-ke alikho ilungu lomndeni elalingaba nathi.
Ukuzalwa kwakungokwemvelo futhi ngikhumbula kahle. Ukuthi uJulia waphuma kanjani nokuthi wasibheka kanjani kusukela emzuzwini wakhe wokuqala wokuphila ngalawo mehlo asothandweni ngaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha kamuva.
Kuyini okwenzeka kuwe noma bakutshelani uma bazi ukuthi ningabashadikazi ababili nomama abanemikhuba evamile njengokuya kudokotela, noma lapho niyohlola kudokotela wabesifazane, esikoleni noma enkulisa. .? Kuyiqiniso ukuthi kuya ngokwanda ukubona abazali bobulili obufanayo, kodwa mhlawumbe kusamangaza noma cha (angazi, ngitshele ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho) ukuzithola unomama ababili.
Yebo, kusobala ukuthi umphakathi wazi kabanzi ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zemindeni, akukho lutho emithonjeni yezindaba, ochungechungeni, kumamuvi, ekukhangiseni, ohlelweni lwezemfundo... Kodwa kusenendlela ende okufanele ihanjwe, ikakhulukazi emikhakheni elondoloza kakhulu. Futhi ku-bureaucracy, lapho sithole khona isithiyo ngezinqubo ezithile, njengokubhaliswa ku-Civil Registry noma ifomu le-nursery, elingakashintshwa ukuze livumelane nemithetho emisha futhi ubaba nomama bayaqhubeka nokuvela.
Kukhona nabantu okuthi uma besibona sobathathu sihamba ndawonye, bangakholwa ukuthi siyizithandani nokuthi uyindodakazi yethu, sicabange ukuthi singabangane... Ngesinye isikhathi, lapho sihamba ndawonye, bavele usibuze ukuthi ngubani phakathi kwalaba ababili umama thina Sibukane njalo siphendule kanye kanye: “singomama sobabili”. Kunabantu abacele intethelelo kithi abanye bamangale.
Kodwa noma kunjalo, uma sibheka emuva, eminyakeni embalwa edlule umthetho wokugunyaza umshado wobungqingili wakhiqizwa eSpain, ngo-2005.
Kumele siqhubeke siqhubekele phambili ukuze uthando lwamahhala lube yilungelo emhlabeni wonke, ngakho-ke sifuna ukuthatha leli thuba ukubonga iphephandaba le-ABC kanye ne-Ginemed, ngokusinika leli windi lapho singaxoxa khona ngendaba yethu futhi sibe yisibonelo kwabaningi. eminye imibhangqwana.
Ubumama kuwe… busho ukuthini? Kunzima? Kungcono kunalokho obukulindele?
Nakuba kuzwakala njengokusho okuthile, kithina kube yinto engcono kakhulu eyenzeke kithi. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi iyashintsha impilo yakho, kodwa ibe ngcono. Futhi kuyiqiniso futhi ukuthi kunezikhathi lapho uba nobusuku obubi, ukuthi usuvele uphila ngokukhathazeka njalo, kodwa lapho uvuka futhi ubone ukuthi indodakazi yakho ikubuka kanjani futhi imamatheka, ucabanga ukuthi akukho lutho olungalungile emhlabeni. Uma udala impilo nomuntu ofuna ukwabelana naye impilo yakho yonke, lesi isinqumo esikhulu kakhulu ongasithatha. Izimpilo zethu zishintshile, kodwa zaba ngcono.
Nomncane wakho, unjani? Ungakhuluma naye ngokuhlukahluka kwemindeni laphaya?
Indodakazi yethu iyingane ejabule kakhulu, ihleka usuku lonke. UJulia unezinyanga eziyisi-6 nengxenye ubudala, futhi akakalitholi ithuba lokusibuza ukuthi kungani enomama ababili, kodwa siyacaca ukuthi sizomchazela kanjani nokuthi sizomenza alalele zonke izinhlobo ze imindeni ekhona futhi azokhulela kuyo.
Ucabanga ukuphinda?
Yebo, sithanda izingane futhi sinamaqanda aqandisiwe, ngakho-ke kuyasicacela ukuthi sizophinda futhi sizonikeza uJulia omunye umfowethu omncane.
Lena indlela Yezingubo: ikhambi labesifazane abafuna ukuba omama
Sikhulume noDkt. Pascual Sánchez, umsunguli kanye nomqondisi wezokwelapha we-Ginemed, ukuze sifunde okwengeziwe ngale nketho.
Iyini indlela ye-ROPA?
Indlela ye-ROPA (Reception of Ovules of the Couple) iyindlela yokuzala yemibhangqwana yabesifazane abafisa ukwehla ngokuhlanganyela kwakho kokubili: omunye ubeka i-ovum, nezakhi zalo zofuzo, kanti omunye uthwala, ngakho konke ukubamba iqhaza kwe-epigenetics lokhu okushoyo. Kuyindlela yokubandakanyeka okukhulu kwabesifazane ababili nenzalo.
Ukwenza ukuvumelanisa kokubili kokuya esikhathini, ukusebenza ngokufana:
• Ngakolunye uhlangothi, yenza inqubo yokuvuselela i-ovarian komama kuze kube yilapho ama-follicle esevuthiwe ngokwanele ukuba akhishwe. Le nqubo ithatha cishe izinsuku eziyi-11 kuphela.
• Ngesikhathi esifanayo, omunye umama ulungisa isibeletho sakhe ukuze i-endometrium ikhule ngendlela efanele. Ngale ndlela, sifinyelela ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwemibungu, etholakala ekuvundiseni ama-ovules ngesidoda somnikeli, kuvumelanisa nokuvuthwa kwe-endometrial. Ekugcineni, imibungu idluliselwa esibelethweni sikamama, ngokuvamile esigabeni se-blastocyst, ukuze ukukhulelwa kufakwe lapho.
Kukuziphi izimo lapho kunconywa khona?
Le nqubo ngokuvamile ilungele imibhangqwana yabesifazane abanomoya wokwabelana kanye nesifiso ngenzalo. Izimo ezinhle kakhulu zenzeka lapho owesifazane ozothwala amaqanda esemncane futhi ene-ovarian reserve enhle, nalapho isimo sesibeletho sowesifazane ozokhulelwa sisihle, futhi unempilo enhle jikelele.
Kunoma yikuphi, odokotela abavamile ukusebenza ezimweni ezinhle, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kufanele sizivumelanise nezinye izimo ezingezona ezingcono kakhulu ngokwezokwelapha, futhi lapho, ngokwelashwa okufanele, siphinde sifinyelele ukukhulelwa.
Lithini izinga lakho lempumelelo?
Njengoba sesiphawulile, kuya ngezimo zalaba besifazane ababili, ukuzala kuyisamba sezimo eziningana:
• Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sine-oocyte factor, ehlolwayo kucatshangelwa ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukufakelwa umbungu, iminyaka yowesifazane, kanye nokugcinwa kanye nekhwalithi yama-ovules, okubuye kuncike ezimweni zehomoni. owesifazane ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwe-follicle esizokhipha kuyo ama-ovules kuzokwenzeka.
• Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunesici sokukhulelwa, esincike esimweni sesibeletho kanye ne-endometrium yayo, kanye nezimo zezempilo zowesifazane, okuthi ngokuthinta inqubo yokufakwa kwe-embryo esibelethweni kanye nokuthuthukiswa kokukhulelwa. .
• Isici sesithathu isidoda somnikeli: ilabhorethri yokuzala yesikhungo kufanele iqinisekise ukuthi isezingeni eliphezulu.
Ngakho-ke, singasho ukuthi imiphumela incike, njengakwezinye izindlela zokwelapha ezisizayo zokuzala, ezimweni zombhangqwana, hhayi endleleni esetshenziswayo. Uma izimo zizinhle, ukukhulelwa kungaqalwa ngomzamo wokuqala ezimweni ezingaphezu kuka-80%.
