Kukho imitshato ebulalayo. Kumashumi eminyaka emva kokuba behlala rhoqo, sinokucinga ukuba izibini ziza kuba nempucuko, zikwazi ukuginya ikratshi, umona, impindezelo kunye nentukuthelo, kodwa hayi, asizirobhothi okwangoku kwaye into yomntu, ngokubhetele okanye embi, isekhona, kuba. sisuka kwi-Emotional intelligence kune-artificial. Njengoko igqwetha likaConil elisebenza ekukhuseleni amadoda kulwahlulo lobudemon landixelela, “kukho abantu abayithatha njengento yokuzonwabisa ukwenza ubomi bungenzeki komnye. Amadoda nabafazi. Kwaye ndiyabaxelela, ukuba babhalisela umdlalo othile ”. Ngenxa yokuba, ukuba akunjalo, babahlutha abantwana babo, abafanele ukutyholwa ngokukhohlakeleyo, ababuthathaka ngokwaneleyo ukuba baphulwe ubomi babo bonke. Kwizahlulo ezinetyhefu ezinye izinto ezingcolileyo ziyaphekwa. Ukuxhwilwa kwabantwana, njengoko umbutho onceda abazali abangeva kubantwana babo phesheya iminyaka uyazi, baphulukene ne-bureaucratic tangle kunye nenkundla, wonakalise amagqwetha ahlawulayo kunye nabacuphi. Kukho abazali abangaziqondiyo ii-asymmetries ezithile ezisemthethweni: intolongo yabo basilelayo ukuhlawula isondlo kodwa batshintsha emva kwexesha lokugcina umntwana, ukuba kuyenzeka, xa kuthe kwaphulwa umthetho wotyelelo. Utata ka-Olivia, ekucingelwa ukuba wabulawa ngumama wakhe, waphulukana naye ngonaphakade xa wayefumene ilungelo lokugcina umntwana kodwa kukho amakhulu abazali - amadoda nabafazi - abangazange bababone abantwana babo bephila iminyaka. Kwakhona baphulukene nabo ngonaphakade. Ngaba ukho umntu onayo entloko into yokuba ukohlutha abantwana umzali akuyondlela yokuxhaphaza? Xa kwakuxoxwa ngoMthetho woKhuseleko lwaBantwana kwiNkongolo, kwabakho umbutho, uFilia, owawubhentsisa imfuneko yokuqwalasela ukuphathwa kakubi kwabantwana, ukusilela ukuthobela utyelelo, njengolwaphulo-mthetho. Akuzange kuphumelele kwaye umfazi ovela kwi-PSOE wakhwaza ezulwini xa esiva 'izityholo zobuxoki'. Mhlawumbi ngoku ukuba isekela lePodemos libanga ukuba lixhoba elinye, ekhohlo liya kuvula amehlo alo, nokuba liqhubeka libiza 'isixhobo'. I-Instrumental ngamaxhoba e-feminism yobungcali. Ngokuxhomekeke kwisini somxhaphazi, wacofa iqhosha lokucaphuka. Basebenzisa kuphela amaxhoba ambalwa ukuxhasa ibali labo, elithetha nge-patriarchy ngokungathi ngumbutho wabanqolobi olungiselelwe ukucinezelwa kwabasetyhini ngonaphakade. Xa ibhinqa libulala intombi yalo, bayagxadazela. Kwaye bayabukhanyela ubukho beParental Alignment Syndrome, engeyonto ngaphandle kokuphatha kakubi abantwana kubazali babo. Oh manene kukho abafazi abakhohlakeleyo njengokuba kukho amadoda. Kukho abasetyhini abaneengxaki zengqondo, njengoko kukwakho namadoda. Ukuba ekhohlo alivulanga amehlo alo kule nyaniso, icandelo lento abayibiza ngokuba lilungelo eligqithisileyo liya kuqhubeka likhula kwaye izazinzulu zezopolitiko ze-polyglot ezifakwe kwiiyunivesithi eziphezulu ziya kuthi uPutin kunye 'neendaba zobuxoki' zinetyala. Uyise ka-Olivia uthe ngokucacileyo: "NgoThixo, oku akukho malunga namadoda nabasetyhini ...". Kodwa kukho umkhosi ukuba le mfazwe yesini iluncedo kakhulu.
