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Ua loli nā ʻano hoʻohālike ʻohana. ʻAʻole ʻo Pāpā, Māmā a me nā keiki wale nō nā ʻohana e hoʻokumu ai i ke kaiāulu. I kēia lā, kaʻana like nā pēpē a me nā keiki me nā ʻohana i kaʻawale nā mākua, he mau mākua hoʻokahi a he kāne hoʻokahi. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma Sepania, loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kāne kāne ʻehā (28%) a me kēlā me kēia ʻumi i kēlā me kēia kāne kāne ʻekolu (9%), e like me ka noiʻi 'Homoparental Families'.
ʻO kēia ʻano ʻohana like ʻole, ka mea i hāʻawi nui i nā ʻano hana hoʻohua i kōkua ʻia, ʻo ia, me ka ʻole o ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā gametes a i ʻole ka hoʻoulu ʻia ʻana, no ka laʻana, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia kekahi o nā ʻano ʻohana hou.
ʻO kekahi o kēia mau ʻano hana hoʻohua i kōkua ʻia ʻo ke ʻano ROPA, kahi e hiki ai i ke komo ʻana o nā wahine ʻelua i ka hāpai ʻana.
Hāʻawi kekahi o lākou i nā ovule a ʻo kekahi e loaʻa nā embryos a nāna e hoʻokō i ka hāpai ʻana a me ka hānau ʻana.
ʻO kēia ke koho a Laura lāua ʻo Laura, he kāne male kāne i lilo i makuahine no kā lāua liʻiliʻi ʻo Julia i ka hopena o ka makahiki i hala. I kēia pule o ka hoʻolauleʻa ma hope o ka International Pride Day (Iune 28), ua kamaʻilio mākou iā lākou e pili ana i ka makuahine, he aha ka manaʻo o lākou e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke kaiāulu, liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, maʻamau i kēia mau hiʻohiʻona ʻohana.
Ua ʻike mau ʻoe ua makemake ʻoe e lilo i makuahine?
ʻAe, ua maopopo mau ko mākou makemake e hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana, ʻo ia kā mākou makemake nui. Ua manaʻo mau mākou i ka pono e hoʻouna i ko mākou aloha a me kā mākou mau waiwai, a he aha ke ala maikaʻi e hana ai ma mua o ka hana ʻana i nā ola hou.
Ua ʻike paha ʻoe i ke ʻano ROPA? ʻO ia kāu koho mua?
ʻAe, ua ʻike mākou iā ia. Ua aʻo mākou e pili ana i ke ʻano no ka manawa mua i kekahi mau makahiki i hala, a ua hoʻomaka mākou e ʻimi i ka ʻike, e kākau iā mākou iho a e hui pū me nā ʻohana hou aʻe o nā makuahine ʻelua i hana. Ua aloha mākou i ka manaʻo e hiki iā māua ke komo ikaika i ke kaʻina hana hānau.
ʻO kā mākou koho mua loa, akā ʻaʻole hoʻokahi wale nō, no ka mea ma luna o nā mea a pau e hoʻohana pono ai mākou makemake e lilo i mau makuahine me ka nānā ʻole i ke ala. E hoʻokomo i kā mākou mea kanu i hiki ke hoʻokomo.
I kou kamaʻilio ʻana i kou ʻohana, nā hoaaloha, makemake ʻoe e lilo i makuahine… he aha kā lākou i ʻōlelo ai iā ʻoe?
Ua hauʻoli loa lākou, no ka mea, ua ʻike nā mea a pau i ka makemake a lākou e hoʻohana mau ai, ua noʻonoʻo mākou i ke ʻano o kā mākou mau keiki. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka maʻi maʻi e hoʻopaneʻe mākou no hoʻokahi makahiki, no ka mea pono mākou e wānana e hoʻomaka i ke kaʻina hana ma 2020, akā ʻaʻole i Ianuali 2021 i hoʻomaka ai mākou e kipa aku i kekahi mau keʻena hana hou ma Seville.
Pehea ʻoe i hoʻoholo ai i ka mea nāna i hāʻawi i nā hua a na wai i loaʻa nā embryos?
He mea ia i hoʻohana maopopo loa ai, ʻoiai ke hōʻoia nei nā hoʻokolohua lapaʻau i kā mākou hoʻoholo. Hoʻopili mākou i ka maikaʻi o nā ovules a me ka mālama ovarian. Ua hauʻoli loa kaʻu wahine ʻo Laura i ka hāpai ʻana a ua ʻōlelo mau ʻo ia »makemake ʻo ia e lawe kā kāua keiki i kaʻu mau genes a like me aʻu, a loaʻa i kaʻu mau curls!«.
E haʻi mai iaʻu e pili ana i ke kaʻina hana holoʻokoʻa: mai kēlā mau hoʻokolohua lapaʻau mua a hiki i ka hāpai ʻana. Pehea ʻoe i ʻike ai?
Ua nani ko mākou ʻike, ʻoiai ua loaʻa iā mākou nā manawa he nui o ka maopopo ʻole. Ke hoʻololi lākou iā mākou no ke ʻano ROPA, ʻike ʻia aia ma Ginemed, ʻoiai mākou i hele i ke kūkākūkā mua me Kauka Elena Traverso makemake mākou i ka mālama pili ʻana a me ka hilinaʻi i lawe ʻia e kā mākou mau maʻi.
Ua hoʻomaka mākou i nā hoʻāʻo e nānā i ka mea o nā mea ʻelua i ʻoi aku ka nui o ka mālama ʻana, a i ka manawa i hōʻoia ʻia ʻo wau ka mea hāʻawi, hoʻomaka wau me ka mālama ʻana i ka hormone a me nā punctures. Ua wikiwiki loa a maʻalahi. Mai ko mākou hoʻomaka ʻana me nā hoʻāʻo, ma lalo o 2 mau mahina ua loaʻa iaʻu ka ovule puncture, a he 5 mau lā ma hope mai, ka hoʻololi ʻana o kahi embryo maikaʻi loa.
Hoʻomanaʻo mākou me ka hauʻoli nui a me ka manaʻolana e hopena maikaʻi ia, akā me ka nui o ka maopopo ʻole a me ka makaʻu, ʻoiai mai ka wā i hana ʻia ai ka puncture, kāhea mākou iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā no nā lā ʻelima e hiki mai ana e haʻi iā ʻoe i ka ulu ʻana o nā ovule. e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi No ka hoʻoili ʻana.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka manaʻolana beta, ʻoiai ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia ka manawa i hala mai ka hoʻoili ʻana a hiki i ka hōʻoia ʻana inā ʻoe hāpai a ʻaʻole paha, 10 mau lā mau loa. Akā, ua hiki mai kēlā lā, a loaʻa iā mākou ka nūhou nui loa i loaʻa iā mākou i ko mākou ola. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei mākou, hoʻomau mākou i ka naʻau i kēia lā.
Pehea ka manawa o ka lawe ʻana? Ua hui pū ʻoe?
ʻO ka lā o ka lawe ʻana i hoʻopaʻa ʻia me ka hoihoi nui. ʻO Julia, ʻo ia ka mea i kapa ʻia ai kā mākou kaikamahine, makemake nui e hānau ʻia a he 4 mau pule ma mua, e uhaʻi ana i ka ʻeke ma ka lā 7 o Dekemaba. I ko mākou hōʻea ʻana i ka haukapila a ua hōʻoia ʻia ko mākou kānalua, ua haki ʻo Julia i ka ʻeke, haʻi mai lākou iā mākou e hānau ʻia ʻo ia ma 24 mau hola. Ma laila mākou i nānā ai kekahi i kekahi a ʻike mākou ʻo ia ka lā hope loa o ko mākou ola e noho ʻelua. Ua ikaika loa ka lā, ua noho like mākou i nā manawa a pau me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻole ʻana i hoʻokahi minute. Eia kekahi, ua hopu ʻia mākou i waena o ka nalu omicron, no laila ʻaʻole hiki i kahi ʻohana ke hele pū me mākou.
He kūlohelohe ka hānau ʻana a hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi wau. Pehea ʻo Julia i puka mai ai a me kona nānā ʻana iā mākou mai kona mau minuke mua o ke ola me kēlā mau maka i aloha iā mākou ma mua o ʻeono mahina ma hope.
He aha kāu mau ʻike a i ʻole he aha kā lākou e haʻi ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike lākou ʻo ʻoe nā kāne ʻelua a me nā makuahine i hana maʻamau e like me ka hele ʻana i ke kauka, a i ʻole i ka wā i hele ai ʻoe e nānā i ka gynecologist, ma ke kula a i ʻole ke kula hānai. .? He ʻoiaʻiʻo ua maʻa mau ka ʻike ʻana i nā mākua o ka wahine hoʻokahi, akā paha he mea kupanaha a ʻaʻole paha (ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu, e haʻi mai iaʻu ma muli o kāu ʻike) ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho me ʻelua makuahine.
ʻAe, ua maopopo ka ʻike nui ʻana o ke kaiāulu i nā ʻano ʻohana like ʻole, ʻaʻohe mea ma ka media, ma ka series, ma nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, ma ka hoʻolaha, ma ka ʻōnaehana hoʻonaʻauao ... Akā aia kahi ala lōʻihi e hele ai, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā ʻāpana conservative. I loko nō hoʻi o ka ʻoihana, kahi i loaʻa ai iā mākou kekahi pilikia me kekahi mau kaʻina hana, e like me ka hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana ma ka Registry Civil a i ʻole ka pepa nursery, ʻaʻole i hoʻololi ʻia i nā kānāwai hou a ke hoʻomau nei ka makua kāne a me ka makuahine.
Aia kekahi poʻe, ke ʻike lākou iā mākou ʻekolu e hele pū ana, ʻaʻole manaʻoʻiʻo he kāne māua a ʻo kā mākou kaikamahine ʻo ia, manaʻo mākou he mau hoaaloha mākou ... I kekahi manawa, i ko mākou hele pū ʻana, ua nīnau mai iā mākou ʻo wai o lāua ʻelua ka makuahine a ke nānā nei mākou kekahi i kekahi a pane mau mākou i ka manawa like: "he mau makuahine mākou". Aia kekahi poʻe i noi mai iā mākou no ke kala ʻana a me kekahi poʻe i kāhāhā.
Akā naʻe, inā mākou e nānā i hope, ʻaʻole i nā makahiki i hala aku nei ua hoʻopuka ʻia ke kānāwai e hoʻopaʻa i ka male kāne kāne ma Sepania, i ka makahiki 2005.
Pono mākou e hoʻomau i ka neʻe ʻana i mua i lilo ke aloha manuahi i kuleana ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa, no laila makemake mākou e lawe i kēia manawa e mahalo ai i ka nūpepa ABC a me Ginemed, no ka hāʻawi ʻana iā mākou i kēia puka aniani e hiki ai iā mākou ke kaʻana i kā mākou moʻolelo a lilo i kumu hoʻohālike no nā mea he nui. nā kāne ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka makuahine no ʻoe… he aha ka manaʻo? Paʻakikī? ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kāu i manaʻo ai?
ʻOiai ke kani nei he cliché, no mākou ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi loa i loaʻa iā mākou. Heʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻololi ia i kou ola, akā no ka maikaʻi. A he ʻoiaʻiʻo nō hoʻi aia kekahi mau manawa i loaʻa iā ʻoe nā pō pōʻino, ke noho nei ʻoe i ka hopohopo mau, akā i kou ala ʻana a ʻike i ke ʻano o kāu kaikamahine iā ʻoe a ʻakaʻaka, manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻohe mea o ka honua e hiki ke hele hewa. Ke hana ʻoe i ke ola me ke kanaka āu e makemake ai e kaʻana like i ke koena o kou ola, ʻo ia ka hoʻoholo nui loa āu e hana ai. Ua loli ko mākou ola, akā no ka maikaʻi.
A ʻo kāu pokii, pehea ʻo ia? E kamaʻilio anei ʻoe iā ia e pili ana i ka ʻokoʻa o nā ʻohana ma waho?
He pēpē hauʻoli nui kā mākou kaikamahine, ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia i ka lā a pau. He 6 a me ka hapa mahina o Julia, aole nae i loaa ia ia ka manawa e ninau mai ai ia makou no ke aha he elua ona makuahine, aka, ua maopopo ia makou ke ano o ka wehewehe ana aku ia ia, a e hoolohe makou ia ia i na ano a pau. ʻohana e noho nei a ma kahi āna e ulu ai.
Manaʻo ʻoe e hana hou?
ʻAe, aloha mākou i nā keiki a nui aʻe kā mākou mau hua maloʻo, no laila ua maopopo iā mākou e hana hou mākou a hāʻawi mākou iā Julia i kahi kaikaina hou.
ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ka Lole: ka hopena no nā wahine makemake e lilo i makuahine
Ua kamaʻilio mākou me Kauka Pascual Sánchez, ka mea hoʻokumu a me ka luna lapaʻau o Ginemed, e aʻo hou e pili ana i kēia koho.
He aha ke ʻano o ka ROPA?
ʻO ke ʻano ROPA (Reception of Ovules of the Couple) he ʻano hana hānau no nā kāne o nā wahine e makemake ana e iho me ke komo ʻana o nā mea ʻelua: hoʻomoe kekahi i ka ovum, me kāna ʻano genetic, a ʻo kekahi e lawe i ka hānau ʻana, me nā mea āpau. epigenetics komo e pili ana kēia. ʻO ia ke ʻano o ke komo nui ʻana o nā wahine ʻelua me nā keiki.
No ka hana like ʻana o nā mens ʻelua, e hana like ana:
• Ma ka lima hoʻokahi, hana ia i ke kaʻina hana hoʻoulu ovarian i nā makuahine a hiki i ke oʻo ʻana o nā follicles e lawe ʻia. He 11 lā wale nō kēia kaʻina hana.
• I ka manawa like, hoʻomākaukau ka makuahine ʻē aʻe i kona ʻōpū i mea e ulu pono ai ka endometrium. Ma kēia ala, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokō i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o nā embryos, i loaʻa mai ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā ovules me ka semen o kahi mea hāʻawi, ua hui pū ʻia me ka maturation endometrial. ʻO ka hope, hoʻoneʻe ʻia nā embryos i ka ʻōpū makuahine, ma ke ʻano ma ka pae blastocyst, i hoʻokomo ʻia ka ʻōpū ma laila.
Ma na hihia hea e paipai ia ai?
He mea maʻamau kēia ʻano hana no nā kāne kāne me ka ʻuhane o ke kaʻana like a me ka makemake i nā keiki. ʻO nā kūlana maikaʻi loa i ka wā ʻōpiopio ka wahine e lawe ana i nā hua manu a loaʻa iā ia kahi mālama ovarian maikaʻi, a i ka wā e maikaʻi ai ke kūlana o ka ʻōpū o ka wahine e hāpai ana, a ua maikaʻi kona ola kino.
ʻO kēlā me kēia hihia, ʻaʻole hana maʻamau nā kauka i nā kūlana kūpono, a i kekahi manawa pono mākou e hoʻololi i nā kūlana ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, a ma ia mea, me ka mālama kūpono, loaʻa pū mākou i ka hāpai ʻana.
He aha kāu helu kūleʻa?
E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai, pili ia i nā kūlana o nā wahine ʻelua, ʻo ka fertility ka huina o nā kūlana:
Ma ka lima hoʻokahi, loaʻa iā mākou ka helu oocyte, i loiloi ʻia me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka hiki ke hoʻokomo ʻia o ka embryo, ka makahiki o ka wahine, a me ka mālama ʻana a me ka maikaʻi o nā ovules, a ma muli o ke ʻano o ka hormonal. ʻO ka wahine i loko o ka ulu ʻana o ka follicle kahi a mākou e kiʻi ai i nā ovules e hele ana.
• Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, aia ka helu hānau, e hilinaʻi ana i ke kūlana o ka'ōpū a me kona endometrium, a me nā kūlana olakino o ka wahine, e pili ana i ke kaʻina hana o ka embryo i loko o ka'ōpū a me ka uluʻana o ka hāpaiʻana. .
• 'O ke kolu o ke kumu, 'o ia ka hua o ka mea hā'awi.
No laila, hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo e pili ana nā hopena, e like me nā lāʻau lapaʻau ʻē aʻe i kōkua ʻia, ma nā kūlana o ka male, ʻaʻole ma ke ʻano i hoʻohana ʻia. Inā maikaʻi nā kūlana, hiki ke hoʻomaka i ka hāpai ʻana ma ka hoʻāʻo mua ma mua o 80% o nā hihia.
