“Patinopindura kuti tiri vaviri vanaamai, kune vanotikumbira ruregerero uye vamwe vanoshamiswa”

Ana I. MartinezTORA

Mienzaniso yemhuri yakachinja. Baba, amai nevana havasisiri vega vedzinza rinoumba nzanga. Nhasi, vacheche nevana vanogoverana kirasi nemhuri dzine vabereki vakaparadzana, vabereki vari voga kana kuti varume vane mitezo mimwe cheteyo yokubereka nayo. Muchokwadi, muSpain, vakadzi vana vakaroorana (28%) uye gumi yega yega varume vatatu vakaroorana (9%) vane vana, maererano nekudzidza 'Homoparental Families'.

Mhuri iyi yakasiyana-siyana, iyo yakabatsira zvikuru mukubatsira kubereka nzira, ndeyokuti, pasina kupa kwe gametes kana kuiswa kwekugadzira, somuenzaniso, mamwe emhando dzemhuri itsva hadzingakwanisi kuitwa.

Imwe yeidzi nzira dzekubatsira dzekuzvara inzira yeROPA, iyo inobvumira kutora chikamu kwevakadzi vaviri mukuwana nhumbu.

Imwe yacho inopa mazai uye imwe inogamuchira mazai uye ichaita pamuviri uye kubereka.

Iyi yaive sarudzo yaLaura naLaura, vaviri ngochani vakave vanaamai vaJulia mudiki mukupera kwegore rapfuura. Musvondo rino rekupembera mushure meInternational Pride Day (Chikumi 28), takataura navo nezvekuva amai, zvazvinoreva kwavari pamusoro pekuti nzanga, zvishoma nezvishoma, inogadzirisa sei mamwe marudzi emhuri aya.

Waigara uchiziva here kuti unoda kuita vana amai?

Hongu, taigara takajeka kuti tinoda kutanga mhuri pamwe chete, ndicho chishuvo chedu chikuru. Tagara tichinzwa kudiwa kwekufambisa rudo rwedu nehunhu hwedu, uye ndeipi nzira iri nani yekuzviita kunze kwekugadzira hupenyu hutsva.

Waiziva here nzira yeROPA? Yakanga iri sarudzo yako yekutanga here?

Hongu, taimuziva. Takadzidza nezvenzira yacho kekutanga makore mashoma apfuura, uye takatanga kutsvaga ruzivo, kuzvinyora uye kusangana nedzimwe mhuri dzevanaamai vaviri vakazviita. Takadanana nepfungwa yekuti tose taigona kutora chikamu zvine mutsindo mukuzvara.

Yakanga iri sarudzo yedu yekutanga, asi kwete yega, nekuti pamusoro pezvose zvarinoshandisa zvakajeka ndezvekuti isu taida kuve vanaamai zvisinei nenzira. Sanganisira yedu yakasimwa inogona kutorwa.

Pawakataura nemhuri yako, shamwari, kuti unoda kuva vanaamai… vakakuudzei?

Vakafara zvikuru, nokuti munhu wose aiziva chido chavaizoshandisa nguva dzose, taitofungidzira kuti vana vedu vachave vakaita sei. Denda iri raireva kuti taifanira kurinonotsa kwegore, nekuti taizoda kufanotaura kutanga chirongwa ichi muna 2020, asi hazvina kusvika muna Ndira 2021 patakatanga kushanyira makiriniki ekubereka akati wandei muSeville.

Wakasarudza sei kuti ndiani akapa mazai uye ndiani akagamuchira mazai?

Chaive chimwe chinhu chaakashandisawo zvakajeka, chero bedzi bvunzo dzekurapa dzakasimbisa sarudzo yedu. Isu tinoongorora kunaka kweiyo ovules uye ovarian reserve. Mudzimai wangu, Laura, aifarirawo kubata pamuviri uye aigara achiti »aida kuti mwana wedu atakure majini angu uye ataridzike seni, uye ave nemakumbo angu!«.

Ndiudze zvishoma nezve maitiro ese: kubva kune izvo zvekutanga bvunzo dzekurapa kusvika pakubata pamuviri. Makazviwana sei?

Chiitiko chedu chave chichifadza, kunyange zvazvo takava nenguva dzakawanda dzokusava nechokwadi. Pavakangoshandura isu kune nzira yeROPA, zvaizova pachena kuti ichange iri muGinemed, sezvo kubva patakaenda kubvunzurudzo yekutanga naDr. Elena Traverso takafarira kurapwa kwepedyo uye kuvimba kwakatumirwa nevarwere vedu.

Takatanga bvunzo dzekuongorora kuti ndeupi wevaviri aive neovarian reserve yakawanda, uye pazvakangosimbiswa kuti ndaizova mupi, ndakatanga nekurapwa kwehomoni nekubaya. Zvese zvakakurumidza uye zviri nyore. Kubva patakatanga nemiedzo, mukati memwedzi isingasviki 2 ndakange ndatove ne ovule puncture, uye mazuva mashanu gare gare, kutamiswa kwemhando yakanaka embryo.

Tinozvirangarira nechido chikuru uye netariro kuti zvichabuda zvakanaka, asi zvakare nekusagadzikana kwakawanda uye kutya, sezvo kuputika kunoitwa, tinokudaidza zuva nezuva kwemazuva mashanu anotevera kuti tikuzivise nezvekushanduka kwemaovules. izvo zvichava nani Zvekutamisa.

Kune rimwe divi, iyo beta tariro, sezvo ichizivikanwa senguva inodarika kubva pakutamiswa kudzamara wasimbisa kuti une pamuviri here kana kuti kwete, mazuva gumi asingaperi. Asi pakupedzisira zuva iroro rakasvika, uye takawana mashoko makurusa atisati ati ambogamuchira muupenyu hwedu. Kana tikazvirangarira, tichiri kushushikana nanhasi.

Yaiva sei nguva yekusununguka? Manga muri pamwe chete?

Zuva rekutumira takarinyora nemufaro mukuru. Julia, iyo iyo mwanasikana wedu anonzi, aida chaizvo kuberekwa uye akanga ane mavhiki e4 mangwanani, achiputsa bhegi musi waDecember 7. Patakasvika kuchipatara uye kufungidzira kwedu kwakasimbiswa, kuti Julia akanga aputsa bhegi, vakatiudza kuti aizoberekwa mumaawa makumi maviri nemana. Ipapo takatarisana tikaziva kuti ndiro raizova zuva rekupedzisira muupenyu hwedu kuti tichava vaviri. Zuva racho rakanga rakanyanyisa, takagara tiri pamwe chete pasina kuparadzana kweminiti. Mukuwedzera, takabatwa pakati pe omicron wave, saka hapana nhengo yemhuri inogona kuva nesu.

Kuberekwa kwacho kwaiva kwechisikigo uye ndinorangarira zvakakwana. Mabudiro akaita Julia uye akatitarisa kubva paminiti yake yekutanga yehupenyu neaya maziso anotida murudo kupfuura mwedzi mitanhatu gare gare.

Chii chawakasangana nacho kana kuti vanokuudza chii kana vachiziva kuti ndimi vaviri vakaroora uye vanaamai vane tsika dzakajairwa sekuenda kwachiremba, kana pawakaenda kunoongororwa ku gynecologist, kuchikoro kana kukireshi. .? Ichokwadi kuti zviri kuwedzera kuwanda kuona vabereki vepabonde rimwe chete, asi zvichida zvichiri kushamisa kana kwete (ini handizivi, ndiudze kubva pane zvakaitika kwauri) uchizviwana uine vanaamai vaviri.

Hongu, zviri pachena kuti nzanga inonyatsoziva nezvemhando dzakasiyana dzemhuri, hapana chinhu munhau, munhevedzano, mumafirimu, mukushambadzira, muhurongwa hwedzidzo ... Asi pachine nzira refu yekuenda, kunyanya mune mamwe masekete anochengetedza. Uyewo muhurumende, umo takawana chimwe chipingamupinyi nemamwe maitiro, akadai sekunyoresa muCivil Registry kana fomu yevana, iyo isati yagadziriswa kumitemo mitsva uye baba naamai vanoramba vachionekwa.

Kunewo vanhu vanoti, pavanoona tichifamba tose tiri vatatu, havadaviri kuti tiri vaviri uye kuti mwanasikana wedu, tinofunga kuti tiri shamwari... Pane imwe nguva, kana taenda tose, ivo vakatibvunza kuti ndiani pavaviri ava aiva amai uye isu Tinotarisa mumwe nomumwe uye tinogara tichipindura panguva imwe chete: "tose tiri amai". Kune vamwe vanhu vakatikumbira ruregerero uye vamwe vakashamisika.

Asi kunyangwe zvakadaro, kana tikatarisa kumashure, makore mashoma apfuura mutemo wekubvumidza kuroorana kweungochani wakagadzirwa muSpain, muna 2005.

Tinofanira kuramba tichienda mberi kuitira kuti rudo rwemahara ruve kodzero pasi rose, saka tinoda kutora mukana uno kutenda bepanhau reABC neGinemed, nekutipa hwindi uyu ratinogona kupawo nyaya yedu uye kuve muenzaniso kune vakawanda. vamwe vakaroorana.

Kuva amai kwauri… zvarevei? Zvakaoma? Zvirinani pane zvawaitarisira?

Kunyange zvazvo zvichiita sechinhu chisina kujeka, kwatiri chave chiri chinhu chakanakisisa chakaitika kwatiri. Ichokwadi kuti inoshandura hupenyu hwako, asi kuti huve nani. Uye zvakare ndezvechokwadi kuti pane dzimwe nguva apo iwe une husiku hwakashata, kuti iwe unotogara uchinetseka nguva dzose, asi paunomuka uye unoona kuti mwanasikana wako anokutarisa sei uye achinyemwerera, unofunga kuti hapana chinhu munyika chinogona kukanganisa. Paunogadzira hupenyu nemunhu waunoda kugovera hupenyu hwako hwese, ichi ndicho chisarudzo chikuru chaunogona kuita. Hupenyu hwedu hwachinja, asi huri nani.

Ko mwana wenyu akadiniko? Ungataura naye here nezvekusiyana kwemhuri kunze uko?

Mwanasikana wedu mucheche anofara zvikuru, ari kuseka zuva rose. Julia ane mwedzi 6 nehafu, uye haasati awana mukana wokutibvunza kuti nei aine vanaamai vaviri, asi isu tinonzwisisa kuti tichamutsanangurira sei uye kuti tichamuita kuti ateerere kune marudzi ese mhuri dziripo uye maari kuzokurira.

Unofunga kudzokorora here?

Hungu, tinoda vana uye tine mazai akawanda echando, saka zviri pachena kwatiri kuti tichadzokorora uye kuti tichapa Julia imwe hama duku.

Iyi ndiyo nzira yeMhembe: mhinduro yevakadzi vanoda kuve vanaamai

Takataura naDr. Pascual Sánchez, mubatanidzwa uye mutungamiriri wezvokurapa weGinemed, kuti adzidze zvakawanda nezvechisarudzo ichi.

Chii chinonzi ROPA methodology?

Nzira yeROPA (Reception of Ovules of the Couple) inzira yekuberekesa kune vakaroorana vevakadzi vanoda kuburuka nekutora chikamu kwevaviri: mumwe anokandira ovule, ine genetic material, uye imwe inotakura nhumbu, ne participation epigenetics zvinoreva izvi. Ndiyo nzira yekubatanidzwa kukuru kwevakadzi vaviri vane mwana.

Kuita kuwiriranisa kwemameses ezvose zviri zviviri, kushanda zvakafanana:

• Kune rumwe rutivi, inoita chirongwa chekusimudzira ovarian pamadzimai kusvikira mafollicles akura zvakakwana kuti abudiswe. Izvi zvinongotora mazuva gumi nerimwe chete.

• Panguva imwe cheteyo, vamwe amai vanogadzira chibereko chavo kuitira kuti endometrium ikure zvakanaka. Nenzira iyi, tinowana kuti kukura kwema embryos, kunowanikwa kubva mukuzadza mazai nembeu yeanopa, inowiriraniswa nekukura kwe endometrial. Pakupedzisira, ma "embryos" anoendeswa kuchibereko chaamai, kazhinji muchikamu cheblastocyst, kuitira kuti mimba inoiswa ipapo.

Muzviitiko zvipi zvinokurudzirwa?

Iyi nzira inowanzova yakanaka kune vakaroorana vevakadzi vane mweya wekugoverana uye chido chevana. Mamiriro akanaka kwazvo anoitika kana mukadzi achatakura mazai ari mudiki uye ane yakanaka ovarian reserve, uye kana mamiriro echibereko chemukadzi ari kuenda kune gestate ari akanyanya, uye ane hutano hwakanaka.

Chero zvazvingava, vanachiremba havawanzoshanda mumamiriro ezvinhu akanaka, uye dzimwe nguva tinofanira kugadzirisa kune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu asina kunyanya kunaka mune zvekurapa, uye umo, nekurapa kwakakodzera, tinowanawo kubata pamuviri.

Ndeipi mwero wekubudirira kwako?

Sezvatataura, zvinoenderana nemamiriro evakadzi vaviri ava, kubereka ndiko kuwanda kwemamiriro akati wandei:

• Kune rumwe rutivi, tine oocyte factor, iyo inoongororwa tichifunga nezvekukwanisa kuisirwa embryo, zera remukadzi, uye kuchengetwa uye kunaka kwemaovules, izvo zvinoenderana nemamiriro ehomoni. mukadzi mukuti kukura kwefollicle kwatichabvisa mazai kuchaitika.

• Kune rumwe rutivi, pane gestational factor, iyo inoenderana nemamiriro echibereko uye endometrium yayo, uye mamiriro ehutano emukadzi, izvo kuburikidza nekukanganisa nzira yekuiswa kwe embryo muchibereko uye kukura kwepamuviri. .

• Chechitatu imbeu yeanopa: marabhoritari yenzvimbo yekuberekesa inofanirwa kuvimbisa kuti ndeyemhando yepamusoro.

Naizvozvo, tinogona kutaura kuti mhedzisiro inotsamira, semune mamwe akabatsirwa kurapwa kubereka, pamamiriro evaviri, kwete pahunyanzvi hunoshandiswa. Kana mamiriro ezvinhu akanaka, pamuviri unogona kutangwa pakuedza kwekutanga mune zvinopfuura 80% zvezviitiko.