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Zitsanzo za mabanja zasintha. Abambo, amayi ndi ana salinso mafuko okhawo omwe amapanga anthu. Masiku ano, makanda ndi ana amagawana m’kalasi ndi mabanja amene makolo awo analekana, makolo awo kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. M'malo mwake, ku Spain, mabanja anayi aliwonse (28%) ndi khumi aliwonse amuna atatu aliwonse (9%) ali ndi ana, malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 'Homoparental Families'.
Kusiyanasiyana kwa mabanja kumeneku, komwe kwathandizira kwambiri njira zothandizira kubereka, ndikuti, popanda kuperekedwa kwa gametes kapena kulowetsedwa kochita kupanga, mwachitsanzo, ena mwa mabanja atsopano sakanatha.
Imodzi mwa njira zothandizira kubereka ndi njira ya ROPA, yomwe imalola amayi awiri kutenga nawo mbali pokwaniritsa mimba.
Mmodzi wa iwo amapereka mazira ndipo winayo amalandira miluzayo ndipo amatenga mimba ndi kubereka.
Uwu unali mwayi wa Laura ndi Laura, okwatirana ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe adakhala amayi a Julia wawo kumapeto kwa chaka chatha. Mu sabata ino ya chikondwerero pambuyo pa Tsiku la Kunyada Padziko Lonse (June 28), tinakambirana nawo za umayi, zomwe zikutanthawuza kuti iwo akhale momwe anthu, pang'onopang'ono, amachitira bwino mabanja ena.
Kodi mumadziwa kuti mumafuna kukhala amayi?
Inde, nthawi zonse tinkadziwika kuti tikufuna kuyambitsa banja limodzi, chinali chikhumbo chathu chachikulu. Nthawi zonse takhala tikumva kufunika kofalitsa chikondi chathu ndi mfundo zathu, ndi njira yabwino yochitira izi kuposa kupanga moyo watsopano.
Kodi mumadziwa njira ya ROPA? Kodi chinali chisankho chanu choyamba?
Inde, tinali kumudziwa. Tinaphunzira za njirayi kwa nthawi yoyamba zaka zingapo zapitazo, ndipo tinayamba kufunafuna zambiri, kudzilemba tokha komanso kukumana ndi mabanja ambiri a amayi awiri omwe adachita. Tinakondana kwambiri ndi lingaliro lakuti tonse tingathe kutenga nawo mbali pa nthawi yoyembekezera.
Inali njira yathu yoyamba, koma osati yokhayo, chifukwa pamwamba pa zonse zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito momveka bwino ndikuti tinkafuna kukhala amayi mosasamala kanthu za njira. Phatikizani wathu anabzala zotheka kukhazikitsidwa.
Pamene mumauza achibale anu, abwenzi, kuti mukufuna kukhala amayi… anakuuzani chiyani?
Anali osangalala kwambiri, chifukwa aliyense ankadziwa chikhumbo chimene angagwiritse ntchito nthawi zonse, ngakhale tinkaganiza kuti ana athu adzakhala otani. Mliriwu umatanthauza kuti tiyichedwetse kwa chaka chimodzi, chifukwa tikanayenera kulosera kuti tidzayamba ntchitoyi mu 2020, koma sizinali mpaka Januware 2021 pomwe tidayamba kuyendera zipatala zingapo zoberekera ku Seville.
Kodi munasankha bwanji amene anapereka mazirawo ndi amene analandira mazirawo?
Chinali chinthu chomwe adachigwiritsanso ntchito momveka bwino, bola ngati mayeso azachipatala atsimikizira zomwe tasankha. Timasanthula ubwino wa mazira ndi ovarian reserve. Mkazi wanga, Laura, nayenso anali wokondwa kwambiri kutenga pakati ndipo nthawi zonse ankanena kuti "amafuna kuti mwana wathu azinyamula majini anga ndikuwoneka ngati ine, ndikukhala ndi ma curls anga!".
Ndiuzeni pang'ono za ndondomeko yonseyi: kuchokera ku mayesero oyambirira achipatala mpaka kutenga pakati. Kodi zinakuchitikirani bwanji?
Zomwe takumana nazo zakhala zabwino kwambiri, ngakhale kuti takhala ndi mphindi zambiri zosatsimikizika. Atangosintha ife ku njira ya ROPA, zidzaonekeratu kuti zikanakhala ku Ginemed, popeza tinapita kukakambirana koyamba ndi Dr. Elena Traverso tinkakonda chithandizo chapafupi komanso chikhulupiliro chomwe odwala athu amapatsira.
Tinayamba mayesero kuti tifufuze kuti ndi ndani mwa awiriwa omwe anali ndi malo ambiri osungira mazira, ndipo atatsimikiziridwa kuti ndidzakhala wopereka, ndinayamba ndi mankhwala a hormone ndi punctures. Zonse zinali zachangu komanso zosavuta. Popeza tinayamba ndi mayesero, pasanathe 2 miyezi ndinali kale anadutsa ovule puncture, ndipo patatha masiku 5, kulanda wabwino kwambiri mluza.
Timakumbukira ndi chidwi chachikulu ndikuyembekeza kuti zikhala bwino, komanso ndi kukayika kwakukulu ndi mantha, popeza kuti puncture ikuchitika, timakuitanani tsiku ndi tsiku kwa masiku asanu otsatirawa kuti tikudziwitse za kusinthika kwa ovules. zomwe zikhala bwino Kusamutsa.
Kumbali ina, chiyembekezo cha beta, popeza imadziwika kuti nthawi yomwe imadutsa kuchokera kusamutsidwa mpaka mutatsimikizira ngati muli ndi pakati kapena ayi, masiku 10 osatha. Koma potsirizira pake tsikulo linafika, ndipo tinalandira nkhani yaikulu kwambiri imene sitinalandirepo m’miyoyo yathu. Tikamakumbukira, timakhalabe okhudzidwa mpaka pano.
Kodi nthawi yobereka inali bwanji? Munali limodzi?
Tsiku loperekera tidalilemba ndi chidwi chachikulu. Julia, zomwe mwana wathu wamkazi amatchedwa, ankafuna kuti abadwe ndipo anali ndi masabata 4 oyambirira, akuphwanya thumba pa December 7. Titafika kuchipatala ndipo kukayikira kwathu kunatsimikiziridwa, kuti Julia adathyola thumba, adatiuza kuti adzabadwa mu maola 24. Kumeneko tinayang’anizana ndipo tinadziwa kuti limenelo lidzakhala tsiku lomaliza m’miyoyo yathu kuti tikhale aŵiri. Tsikuli linali lovuta kwambiri, tinkakhala pamodzi nthawi zonse popanda kupatukana kwa mphindi imodzi. Kuonjezera apo, tinagwidwa pakati pa omicron wave, kotero palibe wachibale amene angakhale nafe.
Kubadwa kunali kwachilengedwe ndipo ndikukumbukira bwino. Momwe Julia adatulukira komanso momwe adatiyang'ana kuyambira mphindi yoyamba yamoyo ndi maso omwe amatikonda kuposa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi.
Zomwe zikukuchitikirani kapena amakuuzani chiyani akudziwa kuti ndinu mabanja awiri komanso amayi omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zomwe zimafanana ndi kupita kwa dokotala, kapena mutapita kukayezetsa kwa gynecologist, kusukulu kapena kusukulu ya nazale. .? Ndizowona kuti ndizofala kwambiri kuwona makolo a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma mwina zimadabwitsabe kapena ayi (sindikudziwa, ndiuzeni kutengera zomwe mwakumana nazo) mukupeza kuti muli ndi amayi awiri.
Inde, n'zoonekeratu kuti anthu amadziwa bwino za mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya mabanja, palibe chilichonse muzofalitsa, mndandanda, m'mafilimu, mu malonda, mu maphunziro ... Koma pali njira yayitali yoti ipitirire, makamaka m'magawo osamala kwambiri. Komanso m'mabungwe, pomwe tapeza zopinga zina ndi njira zina, monga kulembetsa ku Civil Registry kapena fomu ya nazale, yomwe sinasinthidwebe ku malamulo atsopano ndipo abambo ndi amayi akupitiriza kuwonekera.
Palinso anthu amene amationa atatufe tikuyenda limodzi, sakhulupirira kuti ndife okwatirana komanso kuti ndi mwana wathu wamkazi, timaganiza kuti ndife mabwenzi... watifunsa kuti ndani mwa awiriwa anali mayi ndipo ife Timayang'ana wina ndi mzake ndikuyankha nthawi imodzi: "tonse ndife amayi". Pali anthu ena amene amatipempha kuti atikhululukire ndipo ena adabwa.
Koma ngakhale zili choncho, tikayang’ana m’mbuyo, si zaka zambiri zapitazo lamulo lovomereza ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha linakhazikitsidwa ku Spain, mu 2005.
Tiyenera kupitirizabe kuti chikondi chaulere chikhale choyenera padziko lonse lapansi, choncho tikufuna kutenga mwayiwu kuthokoza a ABC newspaper ndi Ginemed, chifukwa chotipatsa zenera ili kuti tigawane nkhani yathu ndikukhala chitsanzo kwa ambiri. maanja ena.
Umayi kwa inu… zikutanthauza chiyani? Zovuta? Kuposa momwe mumayembekezera?
Ngakhale kuti zimamveka ngati zachidule, kwa ife zakhala zabwino kwambiri zomwe zatichitikira. Ndizowona kuti zimasintha moyo wanu, koma kukhala wabwino. Ndipo n’zoona kuti pali nthawi zina pamene mumakhala ndi usiku woipa, kuti mumakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse, koma mukadzuka n’kuona mmene mwana wanu amakuonerani ndi kumwetulira, mumaganiza kuti palibe chilichonse padziko lapansi chimene chingalephereke. Mukapanga moyo ndi munthu yemwe mukufuna kugawana naye moyo wanu wonse, ichi ndiye chisankho chachikulu chomwe mungapange. Moyo wathu wasintha, koma kukhala wabwino.
Ndipo mwana wanu ali bwanji? Kodi mungalankhule naye za mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya mabanja kunja uko?
Mwana wathu wamkazi ndi khanda losangalala kwambiri, akuseka tsiku lonse. Julia ali ndi miyezi 6 ndi theka, sanapezebe mwayi wotifunsa chifukwa chake ali ndi amayi awiri, koma tikudziwa bwino momwe tingamufotokozere komanso kuti tizimupangitsa kuti amvetsere mitundu yonse ya amayi. mabanja omwe alipo ndi momwe iye adzakulira.
Kodi mukuganiza kubwereza?
Inde, timakonda ana ndipo tili ndi mazira oundana kwambiri, choncho n'zoonekeratu kwa ife kuti tidzabwereza ndipo tidzapatsa Julia mchimwene wina wamng'ono.
Iyi ndi njira ya Zovala: yankho la amayi omwe akufuna kukhala amayi
Tinalankhula ndi Dr. Pascual Sánchez, woyambitsa mnzake komanso mkulu wa zachipatala ku Ginemed, kuti adziwe zambiri za njirayi.
Kodi njira ya ROPA ndi yotani?
Njira ya ROPA (Reception of Ovules of the Couple) ndi njira yoberekera kwa maanja omwe akufuna kutsika ndi onse awiri: wina amayika dzira, ndi chibadwa chake, ndipo winayo amanyamula chiberekero, ndi zonse. gawo la epigenetics zomwe izi zikutanthauza. Ndi chikhalidwe cha kukhudzidwa kwakukulu kwa akazi awiri ndi ana.
Kuchita ma synchronization wa menses onse awiri, kugwira ntchito mofanana:
• Kumbali imodzi, imapanga njira yotsitsimutsa ovarian kwa amayi mpaka ma follicles atakhwima mokwanira kuti achotsedwe. Izi zimangotenga masiku 11 okha.
• Nthawi yomweyo, mayi winayo amakonza chiberekero chake kuti endometrium ikule bwino. Mwanjira iyi, timakwaniritsa kuti kukula kwa miluza, yomwe imapezeka kuchokera ku umuna wa ovules ndi umuna wa wopereka, imagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusasitsa kwa endometrial. Potsirizira pake, miluzayo imasamutsidwa ku chiberekero cha amayi, nthawi zambiri mu siteji ya blastocyst, kotero kuti chiberekero chimayikidwa pamenepo.
Ndizochitika ziti zomwe zimalimbikitsidwa?
Njirayi nthawi zambiri imakhala yabwino kwa maanja omwe ali ndi mzimu wogawana komanso wofunitsitsa kukhala ndi ana. Mikhalidwe yabwino kwambiri imachitika pamene mayi amene ati abereke mazira ali wamng'ono ndipo ali ndi malo abwino osungira mazira, komanso pamene chiberekero cha mayi woyembekezera chimakhala chabwino, ndipo ali ndi thanzi labwino.
Mulimonsemo, madokotala sakhala amagwira ntchito m'mikhalidwe yabwino, ndipo nthawi zina timayenera kusinthana ndi zinthu zina zomwe sizili zabwino kwambiri zamankhwala, zomwe, ndi chithandizo choyenera, timapezanso mimba.
Kodi kupambana kwanu ndi kotani?
Monga tafotokozera, zimatengera momwe amayi awiriwa alili, chonde ndi kuchuluka kwa zinthu zingapo:
• Kumbali imodzi, tili ndi oocyte factor, yomwe imayesedwa poganizira za kuthekera kwa kuikidwa kwa mwana wosabadwayo, zaka za mkazi, ndi kusungirako ndi ubwino wa mazira, zomwe zimadalira momwe ma hormone akuyendera. mkaziyo kuti chitukuko cha follicle chimene ife tichotse ovules zidzachitika.
• Komano, pali gestational factor, zomwe zimadalira mkhalidwe wa chiberekero ndi endometrium yake, ndi zikhalidwe thanzi la mkazi, zimene zimakhudza ndondomeko implantation wa mwana wosabadwayo mu chiberekero ndi chitukuko cha mimba. .
• Chinthu chachitatu ndi umuna wa wopereka: labotale yoberekera yapakati iyenera kutsimikizira kuti ndi yabwino kwambiri.
Choncho, tinganene kuti zotsatira zake zimadalira, monganso njira zina zothandizira kubereka, malinga ndi momwe banjali likuyendera, osati njira yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito. Ngati zinthu zili bwino, mimba ikhoza kuyambika pakuyesera koyamba muzochitika zoposa 80%.
