Nkhani yowopsya ya kukhumudwa ndi unyamata. Izi ndi zomwe zinachitikira mtsikana wa ku Monopoli, Italy, yemwe adadzipha Lamlungu usiku, November 20. Mnyamata wazaka 13 anadzizungulira m’bafa, akumapezerapo mwayi makolo ake atasowa, ndipo anadzipha podzimangirira. Anakhumudwa chifukwa cholephera kuchita nawo macheza a gulu pa WhatsApp ndi anzake a m'kalasi kusukulu komanso chifukwa chochotsedwa paulendo wokonzedwa ndi anzake omwewo. Zokhumudwitsa zazikulu ndi zosapiririka zomwe zidamutsogolera ku chisankho chomvetsa chisoni chimenecho.
Anali amayi ake omwe anamupeza: mwana wake wamkazi anali atagwirabe foni m'manja mwake. Magulu opulumutsa anayesetsa mwa njira zonse kuti amutsitsimutse koma sanathe kuchita china chilichonse.
Ofesi ya Prosecutor ku Bari yatsegula kafukufuku wokhudza anthu ofuna kudzipha. Zofufuzazo zimayang'anira Carabinieri, wogwirizanitsidwa ndi oweruza, ndipo akuyang'ana tsopano pa foni yam'manja ya mtsikanayo (kuchokera komwe mungathe kuwona kuchotsedwa kwa macheza) kuti amangenso maubwenzi ndi anzake komanso mphamvu zawo ndikumva ngati mtsikanayo wovutitsidwa.
Mkhalidwe wodzipatula womwe kamsungwana kakadakhala nawo nthawi yomaliza, kusatulutsidwa, ndiyeno gulu la amithenga, zikanamupweteka mpaka kupanga lingaliro lothetsa chilichonse.
Bambo ake ndi amayi ake anayesa kumulimbikitsa ndi kumutsimikizira kuti palibe cholakwika ndi iye. Komabe, mwatsoka, mawu ake anali opanda pake. M’masiku akubwerawa, apolisi azimvetsera anthu onse amene alimbana ndi mnyamata wa zaka 13 posachedwapa, makamaka mphunzitsi wamkulu ndi aphunzitsi, pofuna kuti amve za vuto lake kusukulu.
Mlandu wa Monopoli uwu ndi wokumbukira wina womwe unachitika posachedwa ku Italy. Masabata angapo apitawo, kumapeto kwa September, m’dera la Treviso (Veneto), mtsikana wina wazaka 12 nayenso anapezeka atafa m’munda wa nyumba yake. Kuchokera ku Chialbaniya, adasamukira ku tawuni pafupi ndi Conegliano miyezi iwiri yokha m'mbuyomo ndipo samadziwabe Chitaliyana: makolo ake, kumbali ina, akunja ogwira ntchito, anali ophatikizidwa bwino. M’masiku oyambirira a sukulu, anzake a m’kalasi ankaoneka kuti akumwetulira.
Masiku angapo m’mbuyomo, ku Brianza, Lombardy, mnyamata wazaka 13 anaphedwa m’munsi mwa nyumba ina imene inasiyidwa. Mnyamatayo, wokhala ku Monza, adadzigwetsa pansi kuchokera pamwamba pa nyumba yosiyidwayo. Anali atangoyamba kumene chaka chake choyamba kusukulu ya sekondale: anali ndi chibwenzi ndi bwenzi lake, koma sanawonekere. Anali bwenzi lomwe linachenjeza carabinieri. Chatsopano, tsoka losamveka bwino: mnyamatayo sanasiye uthenga uliwonse kuti afotokoze zifukwa zochitira izi ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo palibe zinthu zomwe zakhala zikuwonetsa kukhudzidwa kwa anthu ena.
Ku Ulaya achinyamata okwana 9 miliyoni amakhala ndi vuto la maganizo ndipo kudzipha ndi chinthu chachiwiri chimene chimachititsa imfa pakati pa achinyamata.
Mliriwu wakula ndi chizolowezi ndipo kafukufuku waposachedwa akuwonetsa kuti pakati pa 20 ndi 25% ya achinyamata amakhala ndi nkhawa komanso kukhumudwa, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi makhalidwe odzivulaza omwe mwamwayi amatha kuchita monyanyira.
Ku United States, chodabwitsachi ndi chodetsa nkhawa kwambiri ndipo chimayang'aniridwa ndi maphunziro osalekeza: kudzipha ndiko chifukwa chachiwiri chomwe chimayambitsa imfa m'zaka zapakati pa 10-24 komanso chifukwa chachisanu ndi chinayi cha anthu osalankhula m'zaka za 5-11 zaka.
Nazi zina zomwe zimayambitsa ngozi:
- Imfa ya wokondedwa
- Kudzipha kusukulu kapena m'gulu la anzanu
- Kutayika kwa mnyamata kapena mtsikana
- Kusamutsidwa kuchokera kumalo omwe mwawadziwa (monga kusukulu kapena kunyumba) kapena anzanu
- Kuchitiridwa manyazi ndi achibale kapena abwenzi
-Kuchitiridwa nkhanza kusukulu
- Kubwerera kusukulu
- Mavuto ndi chilungamo
Mavuto omwe angayambitse:
- kukhumudwa
-Kusokonekera kwa mowa kapena zinthu zina
- Kusalamulira bwino mwachibadwa.
- Matenda ena am'maganizo ndi thupi (nkhawa, schizophrenia, kuvulala mutu)
