Nā hale noho no ka poʻe ʻelemakule me kahi kahu hānai kahi e lanakila ai nā mākua a me nā keiki

ʻO ka hui maikaʻi loa o ka hala ʻole a me ka naʻauao e hui i kēlā me kēia pule ma Orpea Meco (Alcalá de Henares), kahi i iwakālua mau makahiki i hala aku nei i koho ai lākou i kahi manaʻo noho hou: ʻo ka noho ʻana i waena o nā hanauna.

Ma kēia kikowaena Alcarreño, ʻo ka poʻe ma luna o 65 mau makahiki a me ka ʻumi mau keiki liʻiliʻi e kaʻana like i kahi lumi papa a hōʻoia i nā pōmaikaʻi no kēlā me kēia. I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kēlā me kēia papa i ka mahina ʻo Kepakemapa, ua hui pū ʻia nā keiki liʻiliʻi me kahi kanaka makua, ka mea maʻamau e hōʻike i kahi degere o ka naʻau impairment a i ʻole Alzheimer.

"ʻAʻole nā ​​​​kānaka āpau i kahi ʻike e hiki ai iā lākou ke koho i kēia hana. Ua hoʻāʻo mua mākou e koho i ka poʻe me ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa. A laila ʻike mākou i ko lākou loaʻa ʻana no ka lā, "wahi a ka luna o ka hale noho, ʻo Ester Pérez.

ʻO Ignacio, 83 mau makahiki, ʻo Calixta, 92, a me Florinda, 93, ʻo ia kekahi o ka poʻe i iho i kēia lā i ka lumi papa o ke kula hānai ma ka hale hoʻokahi a lākou e noho ai. “ʻO ia ka mea a ka poʻe liʻiliʻi i kapa ai i ko lākou mau hoa kahiko, e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou mai ko lākou mau kūpuna. ʻEkolu makahiki ka poʻe hele i ke kula akā koi lākou i ka hana. Aia lākou i loko o ka noʻonoʻo a nīnau i ka wā hea, "wahi a Pérez.

ʻElua manawa o ka pule, wehe nā puka o ka lumi papa keiki no ka hālāwai ma waena o nā ao ʻelua. Me ka walaʻau ʻana "ʻo kā mākou mau hoa kahiko," kū aʻe nā haumāna a holo e aloha i kēia mau hoa papa kūikawā. Ma muli o ko lākou ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano o ka pōʻino, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole manaʻoʻiʻo ka poʻe kamaʻāina i kā lākou keiki, akā ʻike maopopo nā kamaliʻi ʻo wai kā lākou 'hoa' a lawe lākou i ka lima e noho ma hope o lākou.

ʻO ka hana i hoʻonohonoho ʻia "he maʻalahi a hoʻololi ʻia i nā hanauna ʻelua, a alakaʻi mau ʻia e kā mākou poʻe lapaʻau ʻoihana, ʻo ia ka poʻe e nānā i ka poʻe ʻelemakule a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i pili i kēia noi," i wehewehe ai ka luna o Orpea Meco. Ua hiki mai ka papahana ma ke ʻano he wahi no ka poʻe limahana e hoʻolilo i ka manawa nui i ka lā ma ka hale noho, akā ua lilo ia i kula hānai i kēia lā i wehe ʻia i nā ʻohana āpau e makemake e komo.

ʻO kēia ka manawa heluhelu, a paʻa maikaʻi ʻo Ignacio i kahi moʻolelo a kona mau hoa papa e heluhelu nei: "e nānā i ke kukui," "eia ka malu." A laila hīmeni lākou i ka pāʻani ʻuala. Noho nā mākua, kū nā kamaliʻi, lokahi like. "He hauʻoli nui iaʻu e noho pū me kēia mau keiki, he hauʻoli, ʻike wau iā lākou a mahalo wau i ke ʻano o kēlā me kēia o lākou," wahi a Victoria Martín, 80 makahiki. No Florinda, "ʻoluʻolu loa ka hana, nani nā keiki a me ke ʻano kupaianaha."

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Mai ka manaʻo ʻole, a hiki i ka ʻeleu a me ka hoʻokipa. Akā aia nā pōmaikaʻi ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua, wahi a María Gutiérrez, he kumu aʻo ma ke kula hānai ʻo Orpea. “I nehinei e kaha ana na keiki a haawi na makua i na manao i hiki i na kamalii ke pena a pena me ka hauoli. Hoʻokomo mākou iā lākou i loko o ka papahana hoʻonaʻauao keiki a hauʻoli nā mea a pau a kōkua kekahi i kekahi e hōʻemi. ʻO nā pūliki manawaleʻa e ala mau ana…” wahi a Gutiérrez.

ʻO ka Orpea Meco center (Alcalá de Henares) he paionia i ka hana, kahi āna i hana ai ma mua o 20 mau makahiki, a hui pū me nā hui ʻē aʻe i kūpaʻa i kēia ʻano hana intergenerational e like me ka hale kahu hānai Amavir Coslada (Madrid) , ka mea I ke kauwela e hoʻonohonoho i nā hoʻomoana hui ʻia a i ʻole ka hui Macrosad, kahi hui Andalusian kūikawā i ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana i nā keiki liʻiliʻi a me ka maikaʻi o ka poʻe ʻelemakule.

ʻO nā papahana o kēia ʻano, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana nā mea a pau, e hāʻawi i nā pono he nui. E hoʻoikaika i ka launa pū ʻana, me ka noʻonoʻo no ka poʻe kamaʻāina, ka poʻe i ʻike i ka loli nui ma ka pae manaʻo. "Mai ka manaʻo ʻole i ko lākou ola i kēlā me kēia lā, me ka haʻalele ʻole i ka moena, lilo lākou i mea hoihoi a hoihoi. Ua ʻike mākou ʻo ia ke ʻano hana e hoʻoikaika ai iā lākou. ʻO ka mea hou aku, ʻaʻole lākou e ʻōlelo ʻole i nā mokulele me nā keiki. Hoʻemi ia i ko lākou manaʻo mehameha, manaʻo lākou he mea pono…" aʻo iā Cristina Pérez Carreño, ka mea lapaʻau hana.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻomau ʻo Pérez Carreño, "ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa i ka psychological a me ka pilikanaka a i ʻole ka cognitive field. Ke haʻalele nei i kā lākou mau pathologies lalo, ʻike ʻia nā hoʻomaikaʻi he nui i ke kahua o ka hoʻomanaʻo, a ʻike ʻia kēia i ka wā e hoʻihoʻi ai lākou i nā mele mai ko lākou wā kamaliʻi.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana he pānaʻi, no ka mea, ʻo ka poʻe liʻiliʻi, ma kā lākou ʻaoʻao, "hāʻawi maoli i ke kaʻina o ke ola. He ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ka manaʻo aloha o nā keiki akā i nā kūlana e like me kēia, pono lākou i ka hoʻomanawanui, ka wiwo ʻole a me ka mahalo i ke ʻano o ka poʻe ʻelemakule. ʻO ka hoʻoulu ʻana o kēia aʻo ʻana he mea hoʻoikaika a kupaianaha no nā hanauna ʻelua, "hoʻopau lākou.